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April 26 2017

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etirabys:

…i did not expect to be touched while skimming a reddit thread on fetish origin stories

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etirabys:

…i did not expect to be touched while skimming a reddit thread on fetish origin stories

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wander1ustt:

15poundstosummer:

mcgooglykins:

merspers:

tumboner:

leoreturns:

I have been waiting all year to post this.

omg

This has been in my queue for months.

I missed it last year and I vowed that would NEVER HAPPEN AGAIN.

YES

omg i didnt reblog this last year!

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wander1ustt:

15poundstosummer:

mcgooglykins:

merspers:

tumboner:

leoreturns:

I have been waiting all year to post this.

omg

This has been in my queue for months.

I missed it last year and I vowed that would NEVER HAPPEN AGAIN.

YES

omg i didnt reblog this last year!

April 24 2017

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pirateherokillian:

#This is an honest to god scene that actually frickin’ exists in real life #a sexually frustrated Killian Jones #standing in his kitchen #with his jacket off #and vest unzipped #talking about needing a cold shower #GOD IS THE REALEST OF REALS

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pirateherokillian:

#This is an honest to god scene that actually frickin’ exists in real life #a sexually frustrated Killian Jones #standing in his kitchen #with his jacket off #and vest unzipped #talking about needing a cold shower #GOD IS THE REALEST OF REALS

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justthesauce:

rustfoxes:

More “wtf are humans, please leave the rest of us be” stuff:

Human reactions to fear!

No, I’m not talking about screaming or freezing in one spot and pissing yourself. I’m talking about the weirder, more specific-to-only-humans fear reactions.

Like singing.

Idk how many of you have watched people play horror video games, but a surprising amount of people start narrating what’s going on in a sing-song voice.

Imagine being an alien, walking in a horrific, dark tunnel with these weird gangly creatures, you’re all scared out of your wits and then one of them starts fucking singing.

In a dark cave. While everyone’s terrified.

“ ♫ ~We are all gonna fucking die, this is terrible and I wanna go hooooome~ ♬ ”

Okay, but extend this a little bit to the way humans just sing whatever they’re doing.
It would confuse the heck out of other species, because why would you do this? Why would you sing about the most mundane shit imaginable? Dining is supposed to evoke emotions, and thoughts, and feelings, and humans just… sing about sitting in a chair. It’s not even a good song.
Imagine you’re flying your ship, nothing out of the ordinary, and the human co-pilot just starts muttering “🎵flying the ship through space, da da-da dummm, this chair is uncomfortable on my ass, da do, something that rhymes with space~🎵”
Or how humans like to parody songs by writing different lyrics to a melody. Like, taking an hour long epic ballad telling of a Great War that has huge historical significance, and realizing it has the same amount of syllables as The Lion Sleeps Tonight.
“I overheard the human singing the Song of Thravgorx. I’m not sure they’ve got the right lyrics, though.”
“How so? It’s a fairly well known song.”
“Well, at the end of each verse they’d make this weird high pitched noise, like weeee-umumawe.”
“Maybe it’s a human translation error?”

justthesauce:

rustfoxes:

More “wtf are humans, please leave the rest of us be” stuff:

Human reactions to fear!

No, I’m not talking about screaming or freezing in one spot and pissing yourself. I’m talking about the weirder, more specific-to-only-humans fear reactions.

Like singing.

Idk how many of you have watched people play horror video games, but a surprising amount of people start narrating what’s going on in a sing-song voice.

Imagine being an alien, walking in a horrific, dark tunnel with these weird gangly creatures, you’re all scared out of your wits and then one of them starts fucking singing.

In a dark cave. While everyone’s terrified.

“ ♫ ~We are all gonna fucking die, this is terrible and I wanna go hooooome~ ♬ ”

Okay, but extend this a little bit to the way humans just sing whatever they’re doing.
It would confuse the heck out of other species, because why would you do this? Why would you sing about the most mundane shit imaginable? Dining is supposed to evoke emotions, and thoughts, and feelings, and humans just… sing about sitting in a chair. It’s not even a good song.
Imagine you’re flying your ship, nothing out of the ordinary, and the human co-pilot just starts muttering “🎵flying the ship through space, da da-da dummm, this chair is uncomfortable on my ass, da do, something that rhymes with space~🎵”
Or how humans like to parody songs by writing different lyrics to a melody. Like, taking an hour long epic ballad telling of a Great War that has huge historical significance, and realizing it has the same amount of syllables as The Lion Sleeps Tonight.
“I overheard the human singing the Song of Thravgorx. I’m not sure they’ve got the right lyrics, though.”
“How so? It’s a fairly well known song.”
“Well, at the end of each verse they’d make this weird high pitched noise, like weeee-umumawe.”
“Maybe it’s a human translation error?”

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quietfalk:

Real!Graves x Credence or Colin x Ezra. Whatever way you like it.

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quietfalk:

Real!Graves x Credence or Colin x Ezra. Whatever way you like it.

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April 23 2017

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studyplants:

studytherin:

ʚ 5th apr 2017 ɞ

continue making some basic geography notes♡ i’m currently obsessed with yu seungwoo’s only u ヽ(*´∀`) my ears are blessed ☆彡

i’m in love with these notes omg

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studyplants:

studytherin:

ʚ 5th apr 2017 ɞ

continue making some basic geography notes♡ i’m currently obsessed with yu seungwoo’s only u ヽ(*´∀`) my ears are blessed ☆彡

i’m in love with these notes omg

pipistrellus:

kuttithevangu:

Honestly the mere fact that some people refer to Daddy Long Legs as “harvestmen” is creepier than 90% of all deliberately created horror but like the worst part is that the alternative is calling them Daddy Long Legs

#WHAT ARE THEY HARVESTING #I AM HAUNTED AND VEXED

pipistrellus:

kuttithevangu:

Honestly the mere fact that some people refer to Daddy Long Legs as “harvestmen” is creepier than 90% of all deliberately created horror but like the worst part is that the alternative is calling them Daddy Long Legs

#WHAT ARE THEY HARVESTING #I AM HAUNTED AND VEXED

heir-to-the-diamond-throne:

commandtower-solring-go:

bonehandledknife:

rosebleue:

an-android-in-a-tutu:

seerofsarcasm:

herpowerisherown:

funereal-disease:

the-real-seebs:

lir-illir:

Concept: Maybe “neurotypicals” who consistently reblog post about autism and other mental disorders and illnesses because they relate to them actually aren’t neurotypical, and just don’t know it.

Even the ones who say, “But everyone does this!” might only be saying it because they do it, and therefore think everyone does, when that’s not the reality.

Like, I remember someone who very obviously had OCD saying, “Everyone gets constant, upsetting intrusive thoughts, and does things to make them go away! It’s normal!” and everyone who responded to them were like, “Uh… No, it’s really not. You have a mental illness.”

I hate how everyone is so quick to assume anyone who relates to their posts without having every aspect of their mental state listed on their blog is obviously an evil, appropriating neurotypical. Maybe they are technically neurotypical, but have one or two traits associated with whatever form of neurodivergence. Maybe they’re neurodivergent and just don’t feel like listing it. Maybe they think they’re neurotypical, and are in the process of realising that they actually aren’t.

Please don’t be so quick to judge. This gatekeeping helps no one.

This is an extremely important point.

I know at least one trans person who didn’t realize they were trans until they were talking about how much they relate to trans things. Only, it was in the context of being dismissive of trans people. “Oh, sure, of course you prefer those pronouns. Everyone does.” But that wasn’t a cis person being dismissive of trans experiences; it was a trans person not understanding that they were trans.

Same thing with a lot of mental illness stuff.

Honestly, if you relate to an experience, you have the experience. Doesn’t matter whether you have it for the same reason someone else does.

On a similar note that I was thinking about recently: perhaps some neurodivergent people who are dismissed by their parents have neurodivergent parents who don’t know it. Like, if your mom says “everyone has that” when you tell her about your depression, there’s a decent chance that she’s not minimizing you, she just has depression herself and doesn’t realize it. 

Bless you all

Also important to note that not everyone lists these things on their blog.

Ive had someone angrily come at me in messages because I was reblogging BPD posts when I “didn’t have BPD” but when I explained that I do, in fact, have Borderline Personality Disorder, they were apologetic but that doesn’t take back the distress their ask caused. Same thing with gender issues.

Please don’t assume that everyone on tumblr is willing to list their mental illnesses on their sidebar like a badge.

On the subject of dismissal by parents that is absolutely a true thing that I have experienced. My dad and I both have ADHD and we only both found out when I got diagnosed like a month ago. He’s always really supportive but I’ve had a lot of really painful conversations with him where he’d be telling me the whole “that’s normal everyone gets that” thing, and it was pretty much because he’d been living his whole life with ADHD and had no clue. People judge what’s normal based on their own experiences, and because everyone tries to manage and hide the things they’re struggling with, it’s easy to assume everyone is dealing with the same problems as you when they might not be.

I learnt autism is not diagnosed the same in amab and afab people because of a tumblr post

I didn’t know stimming and sensory overload had names

I didn’t know until THIS YEAR that getting blindly and wildly FURIOUS when being interrupted while concentrating isn’t a failure of me as a human being but a symptom of focus/concentration/sensory overload difficulties.

I thought everyone had to go through that and they were just coping better.

There is a certain curiosity about how things change in a place where mental illness is generally more normalised than in public

I reblog stuff for me, but I also have friends and mutuals who have different ND stuff going on so I reblog stuff for them too. Especially if the commentary is full of people saying it helped in some way.

Do I know if it will help them specifically? No. But maybe it will and that’s what I care about.

heir-to-the-diamond-throne:

commandtower-solring-go:

bonehandledknife:

rosebleue:

an-android-in-a-tutu:

seerofsarcasm:

herpowerisherown:

funereal-disease:

the-real-seebs:

lir-illir:

Concept: Maybe “neurotypicals” who consistently reblog post about autism and other mental disorders and illnesses because they relate to them actually aren’t neurotypical, and just don’t know it.

Even the ones who say, “But everyone does this!” might only be saying it because they do it, and therefore think everyone does, when that’s not the reality.

Like, I remember someone who very obviously had OCD saying, “Everyone gets constant, upsetting intrusive thoughts, and does things to make them go away! It’s normal!” and everyone who responded to them were like, “Uh… No, it’s really not. You have a mental illness.”

I hate how everyone is so quick to assume anyone who relates to their posts without having every aspect of their mental state listed on their blog is obviously an evil, appropriating neurotypical. Maybe they are technically neurotypical, but have one or two traits associated with whatever form of neurodivergence. Maybe they’re neurodivergent and just don’t feel like listing it. Maybe they think they’re neurotypical, and are in the process of realising that they actually aren’t.

Please don’t be so quick to judge. This gatekeeping helps no one.

This is an extremely important point.

I know at least one trans person who didn’t realize they were trans until they were talking about how much they relate to trans things. Only, it was in the context of being dismissive of trans people. “Oh, sure, of course you prefer those pronouns. Everyone does.” But that wasn’t a cis person being dismissive of trans experiences; it was a trans person not understanding that they were trans.

Same thing with a lot of mental illness stuff.

Honestly, if you relate to an experience, you have the experience. Doesn’t matter whether you have it for the same reason someone else does.

On a similar note that I was thinking about recently: perhaps some neurodivergent people who are dismissed by their parents have neurodivergent parents who don’t know it. Like, if your mom says “everyone has that” when you tell her about your depression, there’s a decent chance that she’s not minimizing you, she just has depression herself and doesn’t realize it. 

Bless you all

Also important to note that not everyone lists these things on their blog.

Ive had someone angrily come at me in messages because I was reblogging BPD posts when I “didn’t have BPD” but when I explained that I do, in fact, have Borderline Personality Disorder, they were apologetic but that doesn’t take back the distress their ask caused. Same thing with gender issues.

Please don’t assume that everyone on tumblr is willing to list their mental illnesses on their sidebar like a badge.

On the subject of dismissal by parents that is absolutely a true thing that I have experienced. My dad and I both have ADHD and we only both found out when I got diagnosed like a month ago. He’s always really supportive but I’ve had a lot of really painful conversations with him where he’d be telling me the whole “that’s normal everyone gets that” thing, and it was pretty much because he’d been living his whole life with ADHD and had no clue. People judge what’s normal based on their own experiences, and because everyone tries to manage and hide the things they’re struggling with, it’s easy to assume everyone is dealing with the same problems as you when they might not be.

I learnt autism is not diagnosed the same in amab and afab people because of a tumblr post

I didn’t know stimming and sensory overload had names

I didn’t know until THIS YEAR that getting blindly and wildly FURIOUS when being interrupted while concentrating isn’t a failure of me as a human being but a symptom of focus/concentration/sensory overload difficulties.

I thought everyone had to go through that and they were just coping better.

There is a certain curiosity about how things change in a place where mental illness is generally more normalised than in public

I reblog stuff for me, but I also have friends and mutuals who have different ND stuff going on so I reblog stuff for them too. Especially if the commentary is full of people saying it helped in some way.

Do I know if it will help them specifically? No. But maybe it will and that’s what I care about.

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